How To Be Honest and Respectful With a Jerk

Posted: April 16, 2013 in Uncategorized
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I just came across a useful post by Fred Kofman about the way we handle opinions and ideas that we don’t like.

“No idea is stupid. “Stupid” is an arrogant opinion, an unskillful way of expressing that you don´t like the idea. Maybe you don´t understand it, maybe you have contradictory evidence, or maybe it derails a cherished plan. Whatever the reason, you can be sure that its proponent does not think the idea is stupid.”

The opposite of arrogance is humility (from the Latin “humus,” meaning ground.) A humble person does not place himself above others; he does not pretend to hold a privileged position. Humility is the acknowledgment that you do not have a special claim on reality or truth, that others have equally valid perspectives deserving respect and consideration.

See the full article here.

  1. higher-road says:

    […] Came across this great post by Fred Kofman (via a friends post here)… […]

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